Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Beware Youngiess !!

The other day I was out for lunch with one of my friend to a restaurant when a bunch of youngies or I must say juveniles rushed in a haphazard manner in the restaurant. As I am not in direct touch with bubbly teenagers these days, it shocked me to discover that the current era of youth has jumped all blocks of mannerism.
An antonym to modesty I would say. I have always believed in the kind of freedom where one can stretch his wings long and fly high in the open sky, but honestly speaking those acts of blasphemous by the imprudent youngies strongly condemns the freedom of the above statement. It turned suffocating when the girls plopped down on the boys’ lap while kissing in the public place. Despite of sufficient place available, the group hardly above 16 years of age, soon seized attention of the people present there, including moi.
To my astonishment I heard myself saying that I wouldn’t allow my kid hang out with such kinda creeps. No sooner, the contemptuous acts strangled to question myself ‘what should i do in such situations? What power do I have to stop idiotic public display of affection?’ For a moment I thought to call up the cameraman of my newspaper, and click them to contribute a spicy pic to the next days’ paper but putting myself into their shoe....what I could see were the Parents. Broken.
Though I din’t get the answer then but soon the consequences were aired on several television channels. Mangalore’s pub incident where the Sriram Sena activists kicked, assaulted, battered, thrashed and did everything to the girls dancing in a pub. I don’t know what they were doing there, but probably the act of indecency becomes a victim to itself.
Watching the television I felt how cringing it was for every girl who were being molested by the sena’s beasts.
The incident is an example rather a threatening to all the youngsters including me not to indulge in such creepy activities that puts us nowhere but national TV. Guys and girls we need to be very alert these days. May be your intentions are not wrong but make sure it shouldn’t offend anyone who is with his family or sister or elder. Cause it puts us into real embarrassment!!
Control. No one can harm you.
Pub culture is very common in Karnataka and is being enjoyed since ages, its only now that the action has been taken that too particularly for girls. Amazing!! Even the Chief Minister of Karnataka is in favour for what happened. No apologies, nothing. If the pubs are opened they are because they have the permission and who grants it??? Answer: I don’t think it necessary to mention.
Why can’t girls go to the pubs? Why can’t girls go out with boys? Who on Earth dies without a heart for someone? Even the President of whatever Sena must be in love with someone and must be involved in filthy stuffs but we are Da Indians, more concerned about others.

May it be whatever....I don’t care what happened but from now onwards, remember if at all I find people creating filth around my surrounding I am not gonna spare. No, I won’t attack them like Sena people not at all, but at least I wont keep sitting mum and wonder what should I do.
I’ld gear up to face them and inform them what could happen if this continues, in spite of reporting about them or clicking.
We all need to educate our youngsters, give them examples of such incidents happened in the past. And in case of ‘too much’ we can threaten them or simply report. To what extent it works will be realised after we implement this.
At that time what we simply have to do is:
*Don’t laugh or move from the place on seeing indecency. ‘Bell Bajao’ Let them know ‘your foolish acts are being noticed’
*Approach the restaurant manager and complain to put this shit out and maintain a dignified atmosphere. (in case of restaurants)
*Explain them properly as if you are a philosopher or an educationist and you know the best, if you are younger then them it would play more bold cos when someone younger teaches you, it hurts, Rite !!
*If this doesn’t work threaten them and pretend to be hasty to lodge a complaint, they are youngsters yar....darr jaenge.
After then you know what to do haina.....

Well the Mangalore incident is really a serious matter that should be taken into charge. Everyone is infuriated. Dont wanna close down because I have so much to say, but maybe next time with something really hot !!!


Cosmos said...

I don't agree that PDA should be banned, but ya if it was upto that level than it should be properly dealt with.
Mangalore incident is completely defferent from this incident which you are talking about. The point is — nobody knows what was going on with in the walls of Amnesia Pub. And even if that 'Moral Millitary' was aware of the ongoing acts, why didn't it inform police.
They are not at all suppose to take the law in their hands.
If we talk about the toddler CM, who is on cloud nine having the first southern state as BJP's clear win, he is not at all able to take any action against any right wing organisation be it Sri Ram Sene or Bajrang Dal.
Nice tips to stop the nonsense in restaurants. ;)

Abhay said...

Awesome one
i agree wd this but we cannot act like this sena's even though they say tat de r doing this to stop vulgarism but dis doesn't justify their acts.
we should try to address teenagers in a proper fashion abt our culture which we r proud of.we cannot enforce ny body but can convince by giving examples to them.
u had nice suggestions but i believe their act should be brought in their parent's eyes.

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anish said...

i really appreciate u for dis post.i am also against of karnatakas gov that pub culture shuld be banned
.also that bell bajao funda is the only right way to stop all such pagalpans.good one keep writing

Anonymous said...

Guys!! Please read properly, nothing is mentioned to ban PDA or to compare the incident with manglore's. Its just that the writer is trying to put an example for the youngster to be under control cos that is what makes sena kinda ppl agressive n incidents like those takes place. N its all about realising our responsibility keeping aside wat the writer has written or trying to express. U got the message rite? implement it. Keep no offence towards the CM, Sena, or yongie...just stop PDA if its nt bearable or crosses the limit.

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Anonymous said...

A gigantic shift to simplex writing,an outlook to the whole blog shows A sense of responsibility that u r feeling for the society from post to post and keep people aspiring. That is what the exact work of a Journalist is hai naa? Still the simile drawn between the incidents Happened in manglore and the other noticed by you is not very clear,Reading this post make me realize, we keep on running away from the evils happing in society as its not happing to us. Why should we bother? It is just the same case as we are living in a house and our house is flooded we wont take any action as the water is not getting into our room but its for sure it will get into. So why wait till the problem exaggerate. Let's do some thing not for other but for our self.

It's good for society that journalist blood keeps on boiling so the whole society can feel its warmth.

Keep on....

Vikash said...

its a very nice post.. that i hav read completely... n its a gud step taken to make ppls aware...i m waiting for the next u ended up with..."Dont wanna close down because I have so much to say, but maybe next time with something really hot !!!"

mystupendoussalvation said...

Well. ... wat to say... all the above well said comments said it all..However, keep the good work the Giving Heart..U r becoming a true journlist.. I am too amused by ur article n the way u wrote it.. man!! U still have that spark n energy to write.KUDOS!!..n the comment on this post - I am a victim of PDA too..I dont like it though I have to dealt wid it.Things those are beyond me doesnt bother me.. doesnt work needs to take action no matter wat. I loved the way U wrote the Resturants Menances to take care.N Karnataka Incident is an excellent example to quote at this time.. with no objective to offend anyone.Keep the Good work. I want more these kinda issues to come up.Happy Writing n Be Politically n socially AWare.

nothin.. within said...

though m not fully agree to wat u said but i like the aroma of the post its full of the khushboo of indian cuisine i shud say. I shud tell u dat u have improved ur writin style a lot i love d line "v r indians more concerned of others " says it all said...

real very nice feeling

K.S. said...

hi rashmi,its gr8 to see the observations & solutions you have for the junior section of the society. good work.just happened to come across your blog & cant say how happy I was to read the contents.Gd show keep going like this always...
tons of good wishes ,

K.S. said...

hi rashmi,its gr8 to see the observations & solutions you have for the junior section of the society. good work.just happened to come across your blog & cant say how happy I was to read the contents.Gd show keep going like this always...
tons of good wishes ,

Rashmi..... said...

Thanxx a ton Mam...glad to see u here :)